Ben's First Big Sickness Away From Home--Bronchitis This Week

This is the letter we got from Ben last week, September 13, 2014. There were lots of prayers on Ben's behalf after we read this letter.

Hola Familia,

This week was great, a little long, and phlegmy....

This last weekend my companion and I decided to clean off all of the mold and mildew that had gathered in the walls of our house (it is such a problem here, the air is so humid). We cleaned it all off, but I think I ended up inhaling a large amount of mold. I ended the day coughing a ton, coughed almost consistently for a this whole week. 

Sunday afternoon I had lost my voice completely. Tuesday I started to cough up phlegm and all sorts of other fun stuff. The mission nurse gave me some amoxicillin. It continued without getting better until Thursday, when my chest started with a dull pressure and with a sharp stabbing sensation when I breathed deeply. As soon as I got that feeling I knew I needed to go see a doctor. So, I asked for a priesthood blessing and went immediately. 

They took an x-ray of my lungs and ended up having a rather severe case of bronchitis, about 1 day from becoming pneumonia. The dosage of amoxicillin I had been taking was not anywhere strong enough, so they increased the dosage and sent me home with another two kinds of pills and a prescription strength cough syrup, and with the order to stay inside and sleep as much as possible.

So two days later, I have a voice (it's extremely low like a country singer), and I continue to cough up an annoyingly large amount of phlegm, and I no longer have chest pains!

So proselyting wise and office work wise, I couldn't get anything done. I stayed with another missionary from the zone who is waiting to have a surgery for his hemorrhoids and for now can't walk for another week, and his companion went with my companion to the offices to be able to continue to work. It was really hard to leave back all of the work and trust that my companion could do all of the work on his own. To my relief he was able to get everything and even more done.

I had lots of time to reflect, read, and not talk (a whisper was literally straining my voice). It was nice to just have time to read, study, and learn from the scriptures

Well I hope everything is going well back home. Good luck with your classes, study hard.

I love you all very much and hope you have a great week. 

Love,

Élder Benjamin Taylor

Lots of Conferences & Going to the Temple

Here is Ben's letter from September 6, 2014

Hola Familia,

This last week was amazing! The mission, during this set of transfers, is going to be having interviews with President Cook accompanied with a session in the temple. We had a group arrive Tuesday night from Melo (A department in the middle of the country) to stay in the hostel here on the temple grounds. 

We have been put in charge of the transport and food for the conference (Dinner, Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner for the zones that need to travel a large distance), and Lunch for everyone else. It has been fun, but a ton of work to cater 25 people every day. 

This next week we have 3 conferences and the following we have 4. Our zone had it's conference this past Wednesday. It was so great to attend the temple and to feel the peace. To just forget all of the worldly things for a few hours.

Yesterday was a little crazy, we were traveling all over Ciudad Vieja (the historical district of Montevideo where all of the banks and utilities companies are situated) all day trying to finish up the Rent for our now 85 missionary pensions and fix some problems that we're having with the light and water service in some houses  

I am proud to say that I feel comfortable getting to and from anywhere in Metropolitan Montevideo by bus. It has made me realize how ungrateful I was for having a car back home.

It seems that everyone has stayed rather busy back home. I hope that everything continues going well. 

I love you all so much!

Élder Benjamín Taylor

Labor Day, New Missionaries & New Software in the Office

This is Ben's letter from this last Saturday-August 30, 2014.

Hello Family,

Haha, the pictures were super adorable. That´s great that Will was willing to try new things. I hope everyone is having a great Labor Day Weekend. (John and the kids as well as some of Justin's friends spent this last Saturday at King's Island. John paid for the ability to get pictures emailed of them riding some of the rides. I forwarded the pictures to Ben. I will post a couple here of Williams face so you can see what he is talking about. Will was very expressive in these pictures. Will was a little nervous about going on some of the big rides and was very brave. He had a great time being so brave.

This last week has been absolutely crazy! We had the change meeting, received 16 Oros (New missionaries) and sent home another large amount of Valientes (Missionaries ending their mission). 

We're almost ready to start with the new insurance program from Aetna (goes effective Monday) and I think we're almost prepared. We are still missing the actual insurance cards for now, but I think we can print off a copy for those who really need it in the next few days. 

Outside of the Bible cover

I received the package you sent me. Thank you so much! The scripture covers are amazing. They must have been extremely difficult to make. They did take a while-it was a labor of love and the entire family helped to find images and make these covers special for Ben. We even all signed the back flap of the covers. John did all of the burning into the leather. I hope they remind Ben of our love and he gets lots of use out of them on his mission and when he returns home.

Inside of the Bible cover

Outside of the cover for the Triple

Inside of the cover for the Triple

We've been  keeping rather busy here in the offices. This change there are two new missionaries here. Elder Gallagher and Elder Rydalch are now training two new missionaries that just arrived. Elder Bekker (Utah) is the new secretary and Elder Bohórquez (Colombia). It's a pretty large adjustment for them, but they're taking it very well. I think that this change, my Spanish should improve quite a bit. I not only am trying to force myself to speak more in Spanish, but in our house of 6 it's just me and Elder Bekker who are Gringos, so we're almost always speaking in Spanish. Before, me and the other Gringos had a tendancy of flocking and talking in our native language (Just as the Latinos also did).

Right now Élder Galeano and I are working on getting the rents payed. He's doing great with his new responsibilities. I'm trying to help him make his own decisions. He's a naturally timid person, but with his responsibilities, now he needs to be able to make a decision and just do it. When I started Elder Muñoz told me "You're going to have a lot of problems and difficult decisions, and people are going to expect you fix everything. So... think it through, follow the Spirit, and Fix it." 

I though it was a little harsh at first, but it's helped me so much in my decision making and my leadership skills. I might need to do a little more of that so he can learn to be self-reliant.

We've worked A LOT in enrolling some of our manual payments into electronic payments in a program called PeopleSoft©  (A fiscal management program). It's been a lot of work but now that we have it roiling we're seeing more and more fruits for our labours. It's something that the Area Offices in Argentina have asked us to work on. Until we get this done we will just continue needing to cut checks for every payment we make. It's the whole principal of "If ya do what you've always done you'll get what ya always got." and right now we're doing things the same way as financiers did thing 15 years ago and we're still getting the same errors and having the same problems that we've always gotten. But hopefully as we continue to exert more and more effort into this, we should be able to "knock it out" before this change.

I'm really happy to hear that Dad is doing better, very proud that he's taking better care of himself and is being a great example for our family. How is 2nd Grade Will?

I love you all so much, I miss you, and I send my best wishes back home.

Élder Benjamin Taylor

Day of Nostalgia--gotta love the 80's

This is the letter Ben wrote on August 23, 2014.

Hola Familia,

How is everyone going? I'm doing great! Today is Day of Nostalgia in Uruguay. Lots of people here are dressing like they're from the70's and 80's and almost every bus and market is blasting the kind of music that Dad always listened to in the car. It's been a little difficult to not think back to Dad having the words to every song perfectly memorized.

How's Dad's diet going? I'm really proud of all of you for supporting him so much. The salsa looks delicious. (We got 3 bushels of tomatoes and ended up canning 84 quarts of salsa and 25 pints & 8 quarts of chili sauce last weekend). Down here it feels like summer. The other day it got up to 25°C. I have no idea how much that is, but it was warm. (that is around 77 degrees) 

This week Elder Galeano and I finished switching jobs. We've also taken on a new project. Recently the church has contracted out with Aetna International to provide medical coverage and provider coordination internationally. We used to deal with all the medical insurance reimbursement claims for the missionaries from the United States and Canada; once we make the change from the churches reimbursement method to Aetna a lot of work should be eliminated for us. We´re getting ready for the change and trying to get our most frequently used hospitals to participate in the Aetna Network of Provider. It should be interesting to get to see all of this take place down here. Hopefully we will have a larger choice of hospitals in the interior, right now almost every missionary needs to come all the way to Montevideo to get decent health care (Some missionaries travel up to 6 hours for a simple appointment).

This next week we will be having cambios. Almost every missionary will be coming down here to our chapel in Malvin. The oros (new missionaries) will be arriving this Tuesday and the Valientes (the returning missionaries) go home on Thursday. We have 16 Oros and 12 Valientes these cambios.

I was helping the secretaries with the baptismal records and had to call the Germany Frankfurt Mission to have a recent converts record transferred to her town in Worms Germany (she was a foreign exchange student who  has been here back and forth for over 4 years). The office missionary that answered the phone was someone from Zionsville, Indiana and participated in the Marching Band (we had competed against each other). Small world, right?

Well I continue working in the "How to Become a Preach My Gospel Missionary" packet we were given. It's been a very edifying experience. I'm learning so much and it is really helping me to have a much more focused and uplifting study. The questions would really be the best way for someone to prepare for missionary service; full time and every day missionary work.

I love you all so much and I hope that ya'll have a great week!

Élder Benjamin Taylor

Fasting from English

This is the letter we got from Ben on August 16, 2014. It was in Spanish and I took it to google translate in order to post it. I will also include the version in Spanish at the bottom of the post.

Hello Family

This week I am fasting from English . I'll try to write in Spanish because it will be good practice for me. I will surely be grammatically wrong but I hope everyone can understand me .

On Wednesday, I started my English fast. It has been a difficult environment and a real hassle at times. I thank you for your package and also pictures of the scripture covers you have made for me. I feel very loved and very happy to have such a loving family. I hope everyone will improve in health. (we were all suffering from seasonal allergies when we wrote) How strange is the new climate . Here we are in the winter and it's not even cold and there with the very low temperature in the summer, which is odd.

Here, I am working with Elder Galeano to fix some problems we were having with the IMOS system ( the system we use to manage all administrative things). We also continue the mission of teaching Humberto Belka. Our greatest challenge with most of our investigators is to encourage them to go to the Chapel on Sunday. We want to help our investigators to be responsible for their own will (choices).

In the Mission we have introduced something called " Getting to Be a Missionary of Preach My Gospel. " This is a program that is based on personal research activities in Preach My Gospel. We have to do each activity and then take our study journal to President Cook so he can see that we did everything and then he will sign a paper saying we are a Missionary of Preach My Gospel. I'm working on it in my personal studies and am learning a lot. I invite all who can make these practices part of their studies now, because they are the preparation that I was missing before coming to the Mission. There are 110 activities in total (JT should do these) . I will send the list that we use here in the Mission ( in Spanish ). They have strengthened my testimony so much. The list that Ben referred to is an Excel spreadsheet. If anyone wants it, please let me know-email me at johnbtaylor@prodigy.net and I will send the file to you. It will not be in English, but that might be part of the fun.

I love you,

Elder Benjamin Taylor

Hola Familia,

Esta semana estoy ayunando de Inglés. Yo voy a intentar escribirles en español porque será una buena practica para mi. Seguramente voy a equivocarme gramaticalmente pero espero que todos me puedan entender. 

Este miércoles empecé mi ayuno de Inglés. Ha sido medio difícil y la verdad una molestia a veces. Les agradezco para su paquete y también para las tapas de escrituras que uds me hicieron. Me siento muy amado y muy contento por tener una familia tan amorosa. Espero que todos se mejoren de la salud. Que raro es la clima recién. Acá estamos en el invierno y ni siquiera hace frío y allá con la temperatura tan bajo en el verano, que raro.

Acá estoy trabajando con Élder Galeano en arreglar algunos problemas que estábamos teniendo con la sistema IMOS (la sistema que usamos para manejar todas las cosas administrativas de la misión. Seguimos enseñando a Belka y Humberto; nuestro desafío mayor con la mayoría de nuestros investigadores es animarles ir a la capilla el Domingo. Queremos ayudarles ser agentes responsables por su propio albedrío.

En la Misión hemos introducido algo que se llama "Como Llegar a Ser un Misionero de Predicad Mi Evangelio." Esto es una programa que se basa en las actividades de Estudio personal en Predicad Mi Evangelio. Tenemos que hacer cada actividad y después llevar nuestro diario de estudio a Presidente Cook para que el pueda ver que hicimos todo y después el va a firmar un papel diciendo que somos un Misionero de Predicad Mi Evangelio. Yo estoy trabajando en eso en mis estudios personales y estoy aprendiendo a ful. Les invito a todos que puedan hacer esas practicas porque son la preparación que a mi me faltaba antes de venir a la Misión. Son 110 actividades en total (JT debe hacerlos). Les enviaré la lista que usamos acá en la Misión (en español). Han fortalecido mi testimonio muchísimo

Les amo,

Élder Benjamin Taylor

Birthday Celebrations and Missionaries in the Projects!

Hey everybody!

So great to hear that school is back in swing. Thank you so much for this letter. 

It was great to hear how everyone is doing. I know Dad will be fine and will give his body the attention it needs. I know also that all of you back home will be of great support for him. John has to change some things in his diet due to some test results. When John diets and exercises, the whole family benefits. This is a change that will be good for our family.

I'm so proud of you Will! Good job on your first day of school. Make sure you study really hard and behave for your teacher. William was nervous about his first day of second grade, but found his classroom all by himself and loves his new teacher.

(BYUI Classes) That´s super exciting! The Pathways program is also down here and recently they had a series of firesides about the same program you and Dad are going to do. They're also offering courses to learn English, so lots of young adults and even parents here are thinking about doing it. John and I are going to do the Pathways program the church is offering which will get us credit hours at BYUI and tuition at an amazing rate. We both have several years of college from before we got married, but then life happened and we did not finish. Now we are going to start this path to getting our college degrees together and are excited about this program the church has created. 

This last week was amazing! It was Ben's 20th birthday on August 3rd. Everyone was so amazing! My companion made me a Frozen Custard Cake (he cooks really well). The Burnett family (the senior missionary couple that works here in the offices) invited all of the office missionaries and Sister Training Leaders over for a birthday dinner for me. They made American food: Pork chops and mushrooms served with homemade mashed potatoes, broccoli, cole-slaw, and a white gravy. For the birthday cake, we had a delicious Lemon Cake and ice cream. It was a great time to spend with them. They're always so kind and loving to us. 

I also made a Derby Pie today (What I was going to do last P-day, but we ran out of time) and it was amazing!!! Shared it with everyone in the house and it was something that no one had had before. 

Outside of that, this week was great. We recently found out that our only progressing investigator doesn´t actually live in our area or even in the stake. She is from Belloni (pronounced bay-show-nee) from the stake Maroñas (right next to Libia, my first area). It's a 50 min bus ride that she's apparently been taking every weekend for the last few weeks. She had accepted a baptismal date for today, actually (the 9th of August), but it's going to be pushed back a week or two. That's been a little difficult for us. 

When we leave the offices, it's already dark outside and no one is in the street, making it hard to find many new people to teach. I know she'll still get baptized eventually. She has been prepared more than most people I have met, to receive the gospel at this time in her life. She is planing on attending the ward closer to her home this week with a friend who is a member. We'll keep praying for her.

In happier news we have payed all of the rents for this month without any huge problems!!! Just lots of trips to and from the world trade center. It looks like because of some visa complications I won´t be able to get my licence to drive here. 

Another funny story: apparently we've been paying rent for this house in our mission for a few years. I was reading the contract, and a few of the notices that the missionaries have been getting at their door, and it turns out that we've been renting an apartment from someone who is (illegally) renting out government project housing. So basically, we have missionaries living in the projects. They're nice projects, not dangerous, but legally you can't charge rent to someone else for a house that the government has loaned to you. 

That has been a little bit of a hassle for us to fix and it has made for an interesting story and a good learning experience as to why it is important to review the contracts of all the houses frequently and carefully. I can comfortably say that I understand most housing contracts better than any given native Spanish speaker after having read hundreds by now.

Everything is great back here. I'm very thankful for all of the things you sent. I just got the box yesterday! I wore the t-shirt around the house today.  I'll make sure to send pictures next week since I forgot to bring my camera. We sent Ben a small box of things he requested and a few things he didn't for his birthday. We have to keep the packages small due to the restrictions with customs and the cost to send things to him. We did not want him to go without something from home for his birthday. It is always a relief when the package arrives complete and in a reasonable time frame.

Happy anniversary! (John and I just celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary)
Y'all take care!

Élder Benjamin Taylor

Pday last weekend when we played Fútbol with the Uruguay Montevideo West Mission.

Elder Gallagher, Me, Elder Salas, Elder Rodriguez, Elder Eraso, Elder Quezada, Elder Rydalch, Elder Pointer, Elder Galeano, Elder Plautz

Helping Dad & Derby Pie

This is Ben's letter from August 2, 2014

Hola familia,

Hope everything is going well back home. I really miss those kind of projects back home. 

The next thing Ben is going to refer to is about working on a used car we just got. He will reminisce about helping Dad with various projects when he was at home. 
We told him in our letter for the week about the time we were going to spend doing some work on this car we just purchased. The car is a 1999 Chrysler Sebring that my Dad originally purchased earlier in the summer and after doing some work on it, he found one he liked more. It was a great price and we decided it to add it to the other red vehicles that we own. The real reason we got this car was to eventually replaced the minivan Justin has been driving. The Ford Windstar minivan (The Man-Van, as Justin calls it) is dying a slow, painful death and we needed another older vehicle to replace it. The minivan has over 235,000 miles on it and nearly everything has gone wrong with it or is about to.

Justin posing (not so willingly) on the first day of school in front of his favorite vehicle, referred to as the 'Man-Van'. William also wants a minivan when he learns how to drive because Justin has made him think it is so cool.

The Sebring is a convertible and the top was in bad shape. The previous owner had purchased a new top but never installed it. After 18 man hours to do it ourselves, we can understand why the previous owner hesitated. It now has a new roof and looks pretty good for a 15 year old car. 

I remember standing with my hand on my hips, holding a flashlight while Dad did all the work. Hopefully by the time I'm old (dad's age) I'll be able to fix things while my kids watch/hold the flashlight. That's really fun. I'm sure it will come out great. 

The weather has really improved. the other day it got to like 19°C which is like 66°F. It's just raining a lot and constantly sprinkling. This morning we went to "Punta Carretas" to play soccer (fútbol) with the office elders from Uruguay Montevideo West Mission. It was fun, with a constant light sprinkle along the beach (for that reason I didin´t take my camera out of the car so there aren´t any pictures). 

This afternoon for my birthday I am planing on making Derby Pie. I think it was Aunt Jen who introduced Ben to the only thing better than a Pecan Pie, a Derby Pie, which is basically a pecan pie with chocolate added. He has loved it ever since. I just need to find pecans at a fairly reasonable price. For me, the best P-day activity is almost always cooking closely followed by a nap.

This week has been good, We are almost done with the paying all of the rents for the month. Elder Galeano is learning fast. I put him to work filling out the paperwork and reading the contracts of the houses in order to put the landlords bank accounts in the churches payment system. It's a rather complex and time consuming process.

We heard back from President Cook about changing the time in the offices from 4 changes to 3 changes (24 weeks to 18 weeks). President has changed his mind for now and has decided that it would be too quick of a change and that a lot of things could easily be lost between generations of elders,so for now we're going to keep with the 4 change cycle. Ben told us about the change a while back and it would have shortened the time he was in the office. Now he for sure will be in the office for a total of 6 months.

Love you all so much. I hope you all have a great week.

Élder Benjamin Taylor